You're Not Failing.
You're Carrying Too Much, Alone.
If recruiting feels like one endless ask… if there’s no real season where it’s not “just one more thing”… if you’re leading solo and quietly wondering whether you’re even cut out for this — you’re not behind.
You’re overdue for someone to actually listen.
A coach won’t hand you a script. Or just tell you what to do. They’ll ask the questions that help you see what’s already true, and what to do next — in your context, not a generic one.
Coaching helps you move from:
Overwhelmed
Self-Doubting
Working Alone
Clear & Focused
Confident
Building healthy, lasting teams
What Happens on a Clarity Call
No pitch. No pressure to sign anything.
For 30 minutes, you'll talk with a coach who has actually led kids ministry —
through recruiting droughts, burnout seasons, and teams that fell apart and had to be rebuilt.
They'll ask good questions, listen to what's really going on, and help you name one clear next step.
Some leaders use that call just to be heard. Some go on to a coaching package.
Either way, you leave with more clarity than you walked in with — that's the whole point.
THE KMC Coaching Team
Cole
Rice
With over 20 years of experience in kids ministry, Cole had the privilege of serving in a wide range of church settings—from small, close-knit congregations to large multisite churches.
Throughout it all, his heart has remained the same: to see kids grow in their faith and to empower parents as the primary disciplers of their children.
He’s passionate about equipping ministry leaders and families with practical tools, encouragement, and a vision for raising a generation rooted in Jesus.
Tom
Bump
Tom Bump is a 35 year ministry veteran.
He’s a leadership coach and a mentor, and passionate about helping leaders build thriving, sustainable ministries. With a focus on long-term health and impact,
Tom equips leaders to avoid burnout, recover from leadership challenges, and lead with resilience.
He loves helping leaders build healthy and resilient teams that can build healthy ministries.
Tom empowers ministry leaders to innovate while staying healthy and effective for the long haul.
It’s recommended to plan for 3-6 months to get the maximum benefit from the calls.
Ben
Fowlkes
Meet Ben Fowlkes, who brings over 25 years of experience in Children and Youth Ministry, spanning small churches, large congregations, camp ministries, and multi-site mega churches. He has successfully led children’s programs in churches with limited budgets, demonstrating creativity and attention to detail in event planning as well as Sunday morning operations.
Ben travels across the United States conducting children’s events and manages a daily YouTube channel where he shares short messages about Jesus in 60 seconds or less.
Vicki
Abbott
With more than 23 years of experience in Children’s Ministry, Vicki Abbott has dedicated her life to equipping leaders, investing in families, and helping kids know Jesus. She currently serves as the Director of Children’s Ministry at a multi-site church in Grand Rapids, Michigan, where she leads teams, builds systems that support healthy ministry, and strengthens leadership development across multiple campuses.
Vicki is deeply passionate about training and empowering ministry leaders. She loves helping people discover their unique calling, grow in confidence, and develop the skills they need to serve with resilience and joy. Whether she’s coaching a new leader, guiding a team through a challenging season, or creating practical tools for long-term success, Vicki brings a steady, encouraging voice that helps leaders feel supported and capable. Her heart is to see leaders thrive, not just survive in ministry, and to remind them that they are not alone in the work God has called them to.
Vicki has served as a ministry coach for multisite leaders, a breakout speaker at national conferences, and a camp communicator who loves bringing Scripture to life for kids and students. Her favorite volunteer role will always be large-group storyteller, where her energy, creativity, and love for Jesus shine.
Known for her sparkly shoes, enthusiasm for confetti, and unwavering belief that there is always a reason to celebrate, Vicki brings joy and encouragement wherever she goes. She is committed to walking alongside leaders through both the victories and the challenges of ministry—equipping, empowering, and cheering them on every step of the way.
What does a coaching package cost?
We don’t believe one price fits every church — a solo leader at a small church and a multi-site team have very different budgets, and both deserve good coaching.
During your free clarity call, we’ll talk honestly about what’s realistic for you, walk through package options, and — if it’s helpful — prepare a simple one-page summary you can bring to your leadership for approval.
There’s no cost and no obligation for the clarity call itself. It’s genuinely free, no strings.
Frequently Asked Questions- Click on to see the answer!
Will I be pressured to buy something?
No. The clarity call is a conversation, not a pitch. Many leaders use it just to think out loud with someone who gets it.
What if my church can't afford coaching right now?
That's okay — the call is still free, and we'll be honest with you about what fits your budget, including lower-cost options like the KMC Community.
How long is the coaching commitment?
Most leaders see the most benefit over 3–6 months, but that's a decision you make after the clarity call, not before.
How is this different from a Facebook group or webinar?
Those are great for general ideas. Coaching is about our specific context, your team, your church size, your season with someone asking questions that help you see it clearly.
