Nobody tells you what you’re actually signing up for when you say yes to kids ministry. The confetti, the costumes, and the camp stories look great from the outside — but what happens behind the curtain? In this episode, Tom, Cole, and Vicky get refreshingly honest about their calling, their biggest ministry mistakes, and the lessons that shaped them into the leaders they are today.
From Cole’s leap from volunteer to multi-site programming director before finishing college, to Tom’s life-changing encounter with a six-year-old girl in Detroit who didn’t know who God was, to Vicky’s unexpected pivot from aspiring special ed teacher to children’s pastor — every story is proof that the calling to kids ministry is deeply personal, rarely predictable, and always worth saying yes to.
The team also shares their most cringe-worthy “what was I thinking?” moments — including an indoor pyrotechnic object lesson that sent 300 kids running for their lives and a camp tornado watch that turned into a real-time safety scramble. You’ll laugh, maybe tear up, and definitely feel seen.
Whether you’re brand new to kids ministry leadership or you’re in a hard season wondering if you made the right call, this episode is your reminder: God’s not done writing your story.
This Week’s Better Together Challenge: Write your personal ministry calling statement. Answer these four questions — What do you believe about your calling? Why does it matter to you? How has God wired and prepared you? And what future do you want to help create? Share your answers in the Kid Ministry Collective Facebook Group at kidministrycollective.com.
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